"I Never Expected to Love Full-Time Motherhood," The New York Times, June 29, 2020
"I Love You, Kid, But Please Get Off Me," The New York Times, May 27, 2020
"'Heather Has Two Mommies’ Is Still Relevant 30 Years Later," The New York Times, April 17, 2020
“6 Things That Drive Day Care Workers Crazy,” The New York Times, April 19, 2020
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“Some L.G.B.T. Parents Reject the Names ‘Mommy’ and ‘Daddy,’” The New York Times, August 26, 2018
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"Can There Really Be Two Mommies?," The New York Times, October 25, 2018
“The Other Mother,” The New York Times, August 12, 2016
“Should Same-Sex Marriage Couples Receive Fertility Benefits?” The New York Times, November 2, 2015
“Rustle, Tingle, Relax: The Compelling World of A.S.M.R.,” The New York Times, July 28, 2014
“A Lesson in Queer Parenting That’s Good for Any Family,” The Boston Globe, December 20, 2020
“Moral Ambivalence Makes the World Better,” The Boston Globe, January 11, 2015
“Are Millennials Hearing ‘No’ Enough?” The Boston Globe, March 27, 2014
“As a queer mom, I raised my kid on ‘It’s Okay to Be Different.’ But why did the inclusive book rub me the wrong way?” The Washington Post (online), September 28, 2021
“How to adapt meditation for little kids? It looks a lot like play,” The Washington Post (online), September 18, 2020
“Inside the Love Story That Brought Down DOMA,” The Atlantic (online), February 14, 2014
“Two Decades After Brandon Teena’s Murder, A Look Back at Falls City,” The Atlantic (online), December 31, 2013
“The Lonely Existence of Mel Feit, Men’s-Rights Advocate,” The Atlantic (online), January 24, 2013
“A Lopsided Affair: Are Romantic Relationships Ever Really Mutual?” The Atlantic (online), February 14, 2012
“The Sham of Donald Trump’s Straight Talk,” The New Republic (online), May 3, 2018
“I Asked My Brother to Donate Sperm to My Wife. That Was the Easy Part,” The New Republic (online), October 30, 2014
“Sorry, Cate Blanchett, Gays Really Do Need to Shout Their Sexuality From the Rafters,” Slate, November 19, 2015
“The problem with co-opting ‘queer,’” CNN, July 4, 2019
“Is sexual jealousy an inevitable part of relationships?” CNN, December 28, 201
“Anderson Cooper: Gay Role Model?” CNN, July 5, 2012
“Women won't achieve gender equality for their kids until they stop doing all the housework,” NBC Think, May 15, 2021
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“Why I'm nobody's 'wife:' Queer culture deserves identifiers that look forward, not backward,” NBC Think, March 21, 2021
“Dad Accused Of Inappropriate Behavior With His Son Said It Never Would Have Happened If He Were A Woman—And He's Right,” ELLE (online), August 16, 2017
“Why Do I Have To Adopt My Own Daughter?” ELLE (online), June 23, 2017
“Inside the Growing Asexuality Movement,” ELLE (online), June 1, 2017
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“Want To Understand Trump's Masculinity? Ask A Trans Man,” ELLE, November 4, 2016
“I Was the Girl at the Center of Hunter S. Thompson’s Drug-Addled Universe,” ELLE (online), July 23, 2015
“How to Talk About Gender and Sexuality After Bruce Jenner,” ELLE (online), April 30, 2015
“Why Bruce Jenner’s Transition Story Makes ‘Keeping Up With the Kardashians’ Worth It,” ELLE (online), April 25, 2015
“My Personal Struggle With Trans Acceptance,” ELLE (online), April 29, 2014
“Trans Translated: Boys Don't Cry Director Kimberly Peirce On 20 Years Of Queer Culture,” ELLE (online), February 7, 2014
“The Parent Trap: Paternal Rights And Abortion,” ELLE, March 17, 2013
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“Zip Replacement: Erica Jong Revisits ‘Fear of Flying,'" New York Observer (now Observer), October 16, 2013
“It’s Time for Feminists to Stop Arguing About Breastfeeding and Fight for Better Formula,” New York Observer (now Observer), September 1, 2012
“Another Problem With No Name: Gals in Public Stalls,” New York Observer (now Observer), March 6, 2006
“Today’s Sperm Donor Isn’t a Broke 20-Something,” Daily Beast, April 14, 2017
“In the Era of Fake News, Where Have All the Fact-checkers Gone?” Columbia Journalism Review (online), February 23, 2018
“Do You Have a Right to Privacy in Your Marriage?” Time (online), August 8, 2016
“No, Your Kid Can’t Have My Subway Seat,” The Atlantic’s CityLab (now Bloomberg’s CityLab), July 7, 2017
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“We Need to Talk About Farting on the Subway,” The Atlantic’s CityLab (now Bloomberg’s CityLab), July 6, 2018
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“Sole Confessions,” Marie Claire, August 2012
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“Like Mother, (Not) Like Daughter,” Marie Claire (online), October 8, 2010
“What It Means to Identify As Asexual in 2017,” Glamour (online), July 7, 2017
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“We Asked 50 Women From 50 States: What's Something Big You've Overcome or Accomplished?” Glamour, August 1, 2017
“The Gay Option,” Utne Readers, April 6, 2010 via Dissent's Winter 2010 issue.
“Showtime's The Affair Reflects Real Marriages More Than You Think,” Jezebel, October 4, 2015
I regularly wrote for Oprah Daily from December 2021 to December 2022.
“The Sleep Sweet Spot,” cover of Women’s Health, May 2021
“Slow Body, Clear Head,” Real Simple, February 2021
“The Queer Erasure of Bisexuality,” NewNowNext, August 30, 2018
“Lawyer in The Staircase Says Prosecution Wouldn’t Get Away With ‘Gaybashing’ Today,” NewNowNext, July 9, 2018
“It Was Never Just About a Cake,” NewNowNext, June 14, 2018
“The Lesbian Appeal of Maura Tierney,” NewNowNext, May 29, 2018
While working as an editor for People en Español English-language vertical Chica, I also wrote stories geared toward Latinx Gen-Zers.
From September 2014 to December 2016, I was a contributing writer to the Advocate.
From September 2018 to May 2019, I served as a senior staff writer at Arianna Huffington's Thrive Global.